“Well, at least the baby’s healthy.”

Put your hand up if you never want to hear that again when telling someone your birth story.

You totally have your hand up, don’t you?

I get it. If your birth experience wasn’t everything you hoped for, you can feel crushed – equal parts disappointed, confused and angry. At the world. At your doctor, midwife or doula. And most of all, at yourself.

Maybe you had an (unplanned) cesarean. Maybe your home birth plans went out the window when your midwife recommended a hospital transfer. Or maybe you just felt like the whole thing was out of your control – like nobody was listening to you and your wishes weren’t being respected.

And as if that isn’t terrible enough, society and those closest to you really don’t get it.

People might say things like…

… All that really matters is a healthy mom and baby
… Why can’t you just “get over it” and get on with life?
… I don’t understand why you’re still so upset about this

Even the most well-meaning friends and family can make you feel like something is wrong with you.

Well, I’m here to tell you that there is nothing wrong with you. All of that up there? It’s called birth trauma – and it’s a very real, and very detrimental problem for mothers.

Even though you might not feel like what you went through was “traumatic” (or maybe you do) – if you’re at all resentful over the way your baby came into the world, you’re in the right place.

Yes, even the most well-planned home birth can feel traumatic, because the truth is it doesn’t matter what happened, but how you feel about what happened.

Birth trauma can affect every part of your life – from your relationships to your own inner sense of confidence. And who wants their confidence shaken just as they begin the biggest journey of their life as a mother?

How do you know if you’re suffering from the aftereffects of a disappointing or traumatic birth?

Well, you might…

• Look back on the birth of your baby and feel overwhelming shame, guilt and sadness
• Feel incredibly alone – You can’t fully express your grief over the birth experience to your family or friends because they (and society) just don’t get it
• Experience jarring flashbacks that are scary and zap your energy (and happiness)
• Find yourself obsessing over specific parts of the birth – what if I had done this, instead of that?
• Feel buried under dark and depressing thoughts (to the point where everyday life has become a chore)
• Have a short fuse, constantly feel on edge and don’t have as much patience, love and compassion for your child as you’d like (and then beat yourself up about it!)
• Feel inherently broken – You might not want to be intimate with your partner or feel extremely disconnected from them, like there’s an invisible wall between you now
• Can’t even speak about your child’s birth without breaking down or bursting into tears
• Feel like a “failure” as a woman and as a mother – this is the one thing you feel like should have gone “right” in life, and it didn’t
• Know deep down something is “wrong” – and that it’s affecting your family, but have no clue what to do about it

Sadly, lots of women are disappointed after giving birth to even the healthiest, most beautiful, babies. But a healthy baby is NOT all that matters, despite what people say.

A woman’s experience of birthing her baby is sacred and profoundly affects her for the rest of her life. It’s something that every mother deserves to come to peace with.

So.

• If you feel like your baby’s birth has torn you (and your life) apart…
• If you’re exhausted – mentally, physically and emotionally…
• If you’re tired of crying yourself to sleep night after night, wondering if you’re ever going to feel like yourself again…
• If you just want to accept what happened – good and bad – and move on…
• If you know you need to do something to change the way you feel about your baby’s birth and yourself…

Birth Healing Coaching can help.

What is it?

A private, one-on-one coaching + holistic healing experience for mothers who had a painful, traumatic or unexpected birth.

Mothers (like you) who want to…

• Process the tornado of emotions once and for all
• Finally look back on the day your son or daughter came into the world with loving acceptance – not bitterness or regret
• Actually celebrate your baby’s BIRTHday rather than feel consumed with dread as the day approaches
• Re-build your confidence so you feel empowered as a woman and a mother
• Trust yourself to navigate motherhood intuitively and from-the-heart
• Forgive yourself and God/the universe/what-have-you for the way things went down
• Feel at peace with the choices you made during birth (forced or otherwise)
• Reconnect sexually – with your partner and your own body, on a deeper and more intimate level than ever before
• Feel like a whole person again – no longer incapacitated + able to truly enjoy life and your baby
• Cultivate a calm, patient demeanor and deep connection to your child
• Release anything that’s in the way of you being the most amazing, full-hearted mother you can be

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Hi, I’m Crystal Di Domizio, and I’m a pregnancy & birth healing coach who works with women like you to heal after a disappointing or traumatic birth experience with EFT and Matrix Birth Reimprinting. (Never heard of it? Keep reading below.)

In a nutshell, I provide mothers – whose confidence, self-worth and sometimes, bodies were put through the ringer during childbirth – with a safe space to fully process all of their varied and painful birth experience emotions – without having to re-live the trauma.

For over 9 years I’ve worked specifically with pregnant and postpartum women in a variety of ways, and I’ve discovered a fascinating modality called EFT & Matrix Birth Reimprinting to be the most effective way to heal birth trauma.

As a Certified Advanced EFT Practitioner, I can help you gently and naturally release, accept and move past the staggering pain, guilt and shame that follows a traumatic birth – and land in a loving place where you’re able to look back on your baby’s birth with genuine warmth and acceptance.

How does it work? Together, we’ll walk through every layer of your birth story in a radically open, honest way (which means you can finally share the whole thing in a safe and comfortable environment. My coaching calls are judgement-free zones!). And don’t worry if what you experienced is too traumatic to even think – let alone speak – about. That’s part of what makes EFT and Matrix Birth Reimprinting so fascinating – we can drastically bring down the intensity of your emotions and release the trauma from your body (and mind!)…without you even having to tell me what happened. Seriously.

Sound crazy? It’s not. It happens with my clients every single day.

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Soo, what exactly is EFT and Matrix Birth Reimprinting?

If you’re not familiar, EFT stands for Emotional Freedom Technique, and it’s honestly the most powerful, life-transforming tool I’ve ever encountered. Basically, EFT involves tapping on certain meridian points on the body to create profound cognitive (and energetic) shifts. It’s an incredibly easy, gentle and extremely effective way to release the overwhelming guilt, anger and fear you’re holding onto from your baby’s not-so-perfect birth.

And Matrix Birth Reimprinting? It takes all of this powerful EFT work one step deeper. Essentially, it’s an advanced EFT technique that will allow us to go back into your subconscious and help “re-birth” your baby exactly the way you wanted with love and support. So, for example, if you ended up in the hospital against your better wishes, we’ll re-imagine you had the calm home birth you desired. Then we’ll take this subconscious visualization and reimprint that positive experience into your body and mind at a deep, cellular level – so it feels real to you. That means that afterward when you go back and think about the birth, you will actually FEEL the love and joy that you wanted to feel. Think of it like an energetic do-over!

Seriously though, just imagine being able to mentally re-experience your baby’s birth with all the support, information and resources you needed at the time. And then, finally being able to reflect upon your baby’s birth with authentic joy, love and peace.

Take a look at a few of the positive, empowering and life-transforming experiences my clients have had below:

The truth is: Finding peace and acceptance with your birth experience is vital to your own happiness.

When you come to terms with your baby’s birth experience, everything changes. We’re talking gaining back every ounce of self-confidence + self-love (and then some!), re-establishing sacred connection to your own intuition and revitalizing your relationships with others, including your partner and your child(ren). You’ll restore hope and confidence that if you choose, you can have another baby and experience a positive and empowering birth experience the next time around.

It’s time to stop carrying around the weight of an unhappy birth experience (which, let’s be honest, is way worse than lugging around that 20-lb diaper bag). And while we can’t actually change your baby’s birth, we can change the way you feel about it.

And the way you feel about it? Is all that really matters.

Ready to begin this work together? Sitting on the fence?

 
Let’s chat! I offer a free phone consultation. Email me I’ll get back to you within 2 business days ♥

Frequently Asked Questions:

How soon will I notice results?
Immediately! Yes, you heard that right. All my clients feel tangible shifts and changes in their thoughts and feelings within the first session. It’s not a healing modality where you walk away wondering if it’s actually working or having to wait until after a few sessions to reap the benefits. It’s one of the things I love most about EFT and Matrix Reimprinting! It’s quick, easy and gentle, yet deep and sustainable.

What is EFT?
EFT stands for Emotional Freedom Technique, which is a powerful, life-transforming self care tool that you can use for life. It’s amazing at bringing down the emotional intensity around certain events or triggers – birth, for example. And while yes, lots of people do basic EFT on their own, I’m a certified EFT practitioner, equipped with advanced tools and techniques that help us get to your root triggers – and melt them away like butter – faster than anybody can do alone.

What is Matrix Reimprinting?
Well, let’s start by saying it does not include Keanu Reeves. Sadly. Matrix Reimprinting is an advanced EFT technique that makes it possible for us to access your subconscious and “reimprint” more positive experiences, thoughts and feelings into your subconscious mind + body at a cellular level. It sounds fancy and woo-woo, but it really, truly works. If you’ve ever done any visualization work, you know the subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between you actually being AT a beach – or if you’ve just vividly imagined the heat of the sun on your skin and the waves crashing against your toes. Try it for yourself and you’ll see!

I’ve never worked with someone via Skype. What should I expect?
You don’t need any fancy tools or equipment (your built-in computer microphone and camera will do). There’s no traveling involved, so you’ll need a very minimal amount of childcare. I want to make this experience as easy and convenient as possible for you. If you can find 1-2 hours a week to devote to yourself and your healing, your life will radically change.

Here’s what a client had to say about working with me via Skype:
“I met Crystal online at our appointment time. She is always punctual! I have a lot of therapy experience face to face. I wasn’t sure how skype would work. I was with antsy surprise. Crystal’s warmth, empathy, compassion and caring transmits just as well electronically as it does in person. She takes her time and is quick to pick up on your body language when you might not be doing so well, even if you try to lie. Don’t bother, she knows. Ha.” Margo T.

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Questions? Email me! [email protected]